The Happy Teens Life

I could feel the blood oozing out from my vagina I could see the tears streaming down my eyes It was tears of pain, tears of shame, tears of humiliation. He took advantage of my gullibility He forced himself on me and then gave me a mocking smile I can never forget that day, that day when my virginity was ripped off me. That day when my treasured asset was taken away from me. Who will explain, who will I turn to, who will I run to? where the very thing in me died. I walked as if I was nobody anymore I couldn’t raise my head to talk. Everybody blamed me for my predicament. I felt it, I felt the disgrace, the torture was too much; nobody wanted me, everybody ran away from me . I was stigmatized because my asset, because my treasure was stolen away from me. So I was hospitalized, was there for months, for years, nobody to talk to. I couldn’t voice out my feelings because the very thing I had was taken away from me But he came, He came, He came I had the best physician ever Emotio...

The abuser... He came suddenly and you would hardly forget that day. You wished someone could help, but the world was quiet. He bounced on you, grabbed your feeble arms and the wickedness transpired. You still wish the day never came, you are pained. *** She shocked you. You thought she was your protector, never knew she was out to devour you. She was subtle. She said 'you would be fine' , 'tell no one about it' Yet she keeps molesting and draining you. Your life is yoked, It's a burden you no longer want to bear. *** You feel like another soul; wretched, dirty, ignored. You do not know if anyone would love and believe in you again. Like your destiny is trapped, Like no one cares, like no one understands *** The abuser is masked with evil (S)He is wicked and forceful, Sometimes subtle and deceiving. (S)He wants to steal the fullness of your life. (S)He wants to destroy you. *** You see why you should not remain silent? No matter what skin (s)he puts on; black, ...

The abuser... He came suddenly and you would hardly forget that day. You wished someone could help, but the world was quiet. He bounced on you, grabbed your feeble arms and the wickedness transpired. You still wish the day never came, you are pained. *** She shocked you. You thought she was your protector, never knew she was out to devour you. She was subtle. She said 'you would be fine' , 'tell no one about it' Yet she keeps molesting and draining you. Your life is yoked, It's a burden you no longer want to bear. *** You feel like another soul; wretched, dirty, ignored. You do not know if anyone would love and believe in you again. Like your destiny is trapped, Like no one cares, like no one understands *** The abuser is masked with evil (S)He is wicked and forceful, Sometimes subtle and deceiving. (S)He wants to steal the fullness of your life. (S)He wants to destroy you. *** You see why you should not remain silent? No matter what skin (s)he puts on; black, ...

Vivian shares her story... Little girl I was, full of naivety and selfless love, obeying my beloved, belaboured single mum, I had to stay with a beautiful family from noon to dusk when mum would be back from work. The family seemed all beautiful, and to me it was an ideal home anyone would love to have – a good father, loving and hardworking mother, three sons and I was the only girl spending most of my back-from-school hours with them, so technically, I became their sister. The first son was twenty-one years old, he was two years older than the second son, the third son was eleven, while I (little sister) was barely thirteen years old. The tendencies of a growing teen-girl were all on me; I was learning to trust people with my emotions, seeking acceptance from the opposite sex, imaging the unrealistic as needful, bottling up issues and characterising my actions as a show of maturity. Never missing a day of the week in their house, I got so familiar and overly comfortable with the ...

The enemy within is more dangerous, some people say... We see why the great king David, the man who fought and lost no battle in his life time, could shiver and run away from his son Absalom who suddenly became a self declared enemy? David, as a father, trusted Absalom. Absalom on the other hand abused this relationship by using the privileged information of his father's lapses and weaknesses against him. Enemy within! You see why the enemy within is dangerous? It is easier to guard against the enemy outside, to wage war and defeat them but the enemy inside is more subtle, they sometimes know your tactics, weaknesses and probably your strength. This is the reason it is important to look out for these enemies? Journey with me as I tell you more about them. Take into consideration the story of Ammon and Tamar in 2nd Samuel chapter 13 of the Bible. You might want to read it again. I could not stop asking questions after I read it again this afternoon. Why would Ammon desperately w...