The Happy Teens Life

  Excerpts From The Teen And Personality "There is a possibility that as teenagers you would not be hundred percent satisfied with your looks, family background, environment etc. and when these things that seem like loopholes are spotted in your life, dissatisfaction could be stirred. You could see Mr. A having the best part of what you seem not to be getting at all or Miss B, whose world seem to be going all perfect and glittering. But here you are wrapped up in one mess or another; face to face with the realities of your faults and imperfections. In times like this, you could innocently progress from wishing to become someone or the people you admire to actually posing to be who you are not. You could get under emotional, financial, psychological or even physical pressure to do certain things so that you fit into the “Ideal” personality you have in your minds and be seen as such by other people. But this always end up bad because placing your satisfaction on people's percept...

   Excerpts From The Teen And Personality In general, teenage is associated with warmth, energy, risk taking and lots of new trials. Can you learn to use these dispositions to make your lives better? The truth is that there are many mistakes  teenagers are prone to at this stage of their lives and sometimes fall prey to them. From consequences of ill taken decisions to the brokenness gotten from unguided risk, you must understand that you are still in the growing process. Biologically, there are physical evidences to this growth process; some internal organs are not fully matured including the prefrontal cortex -the decision making part of the brain. Science explains why teenagers make even obvious mistakes.  However, does this imply you live according to the dictates of your “supposed” biological limitations and weakness? My humble submission is-No! You need to work out ways to live beyond the ordinary because every teenager is designed to explore life, enjoy the ti...

Excerpts From The Teen And Personality " The reality is, until you have a true understanding of who you are and what value you represent, you will remain completely vulnerable to compromise and a  sense of dissatisfaction in yourself. You could also afford to give away your true nature to settle for who you are not, which would definitely become a threat later in your life; just like it came hunting on Esau after he had traded his birth right. To avoid these, the picture of who you are and what you represent should always reside in your subconscious such that if asked the question at any time, you wouldn't  have to be guessing who you think you are but can boldly affirm who you are.  You do not want to go about making assumptions and wild guess about your very essence (who you represent, your worth or value on earth) or do you?"